REFLECTIONS ON 50 YEARS AS A COLUMBAN SISTER

by Sister Stephanie King


It has been over 50 years since I heard the call to be a
missionary sister. I was working as a graduate nurse in South Boston’s Carney Hospital when a priest spoke to us one day after a luncheon. His words were like God speaking to me directly: “There is no shortage of vocations, but there are many who are saying no.”
It was then I knew I could not ignore my calling any longer.

I began the process of becoming a missionary, and six months later I was with the Columban Sisters. I was one of five girls in my family and the first to leave home.

It was very painful. I had my family’s encouragement and support, but almost wished they would try to discourage me.

Serving In Korea
After my novitiate in Hyde Park, Massachusetts, I was assigned to South Korea. I happily spent 30 of my next 35 years in this country. The changes in South Korea have been dramatic. Back in the ’50s, it was a war-torn land. Today, it is a beautiful, modern country with a Catholic Church that has grown dramatically over the years. Throughout, the people have been warm and friendly.

In the early days of the ’50s, we started by establishing a medical clinic. A hospital with a nursing school followed and then a school for midwives and a residency program for doctors were established.
In 1990, we turned control of the hospital to the local diocese; it was time for the Koreans to run their own institutions, and they have done a fine job. We moved on to smaller projects, including opening a novitiate in Seoul and sending several Korean Columban Sisters to other countries.

I still hear the call I responded to so many years ago, of course, and each day is spent trying to respond to the present situation. The greatest help for me is living in a community where you share your ups and downs. I think we are at our best during crisis, like sickness or a death in the family. My sisters have always been there for me, and I know they always will be.

The Columban Fathers are a big part of our history, too, and we owe them an enormous debt of gratitude for all they have done to help us on all our missions. I can’t forget our benefactors here in the United States either. They have helped us more than they will ever know with their prayers and financial help.

While I was in Korea all those years, the sisters at home were working hard to enable us to keep up our mission projects. Now that tables have turned. I am back in the United States and am glad to work in our development office, which raises funds to support our missions.
When some people look at my life, they say, “How can you give up so much?” I don’t see how I gave up anything. I feel that I have been blessed to be a small part of a missionary organization and have received so much more than I have given.

The Courage To Answer His Call
Religious life has changed a lot over these 50 years, but the basics are the same: We are a group of women, living in community, dedicated to the Catholic Church and doing our best to spread the Good News wherever we are sent.

Our prayer each day is this: “We ask you Lord to send laborers into your harvest; may all people come to know You, the one true God.” It is He who called me and continues to call me today. May many young people today have the courage to say yes when God calls them.•

 

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